BP, Nonstress Monday

I had a nonstress test on Monday, 6/28. It went well. My blood pressure was 117/73, which is excellent. The test went well...Peanut looked great, according to the nurse. I had 2 "larger" contractions (still not painful, but they looked more intense on the paper than the others had). I also had smaller ones, but nothing consistent. The nurse happened to be in the room when I had one so I was able to know for sure that the tightening I was feeling was truly a contraction.

Met with Dr. Lo a little after the test. BP was 124/84, which he was happy with. Finally! BUT...he still doesn't think I will go for another 2 weeks! I'm honestly expecting them to have to induce me! I still cannot believe that word is even in our vocabulary!! He also said I can do things at nights/on weekends! Yippee skippy! I think I will go vacuum, go for a run, do some jumping jacks, and throw in a few sit-ups! If that doesn't make things go, not sure what will! I'm kidding, of course!

Life is good...we are so blessed...excited to meet Peanut...hoping for health...praying for a safe delivery...thankful for family and friends...love you all...

Who needs sleep anyway?

Last night we had some crazy storms and tons of rain in a short period of time. We got about 2.2 inches (doesn't sound excessive, but it came so fast). The NOAA weather radio went off constantly between a thunderstorm watch/warning and flood watch/warning. They were talking about wind gusts of 70+ and quarter size hail. Now, I personally didn't care what was going on here and I really didn't mind being up most of the night. But, I was worried about Brad! He is gone on his last overnight fishing trip before Peanut gets here. He's about an hour and 15 minutes Northeast of here and I knew they were also getting nailed with the same storms, if not worse. The kicker is...he's in a camper! And, the campground was already extremely wet before these last storms. So, all I can think of at 3:00 in the morning is whether or not they are ok, did they get the wind/hail/flooding? So, knowing they get up very early for these tournaments, I sent him a text at about 3:30 wishing him "good luck and telling him to be careful with the rising water on the lake." No response. So, I send him another text asking him to let me know they are ok after the storms. No response. So, thinking maybe they weren't getting up until 4:00, I called after that. No answer. I call 2 more times...no answer! Are you kidding me?! What if I was in labor! If any of you are like me, your imagination is 1000 times worse in the middle of the night than during the day. So, you can probably imagine everything that was racing through my mind -- are they alive, what is wrong, do they just not have service, are they already gone to the ramp and his phone is buried under his rainsuit, etc?! Yet, I continue to think the worst! FINALLY (after what seemed like an eternity), at 4:22, he calls and says, "I'm running behind, what did you need?" Oh...just needed to know that you were ALIVE! Seriously, I'm happy he was ok! I asked why he didn't answer..."I had my phone on silent!" Newsflash - I could have been telling you I was in labor!! Oh, honey, I love you! :) The good news is - I really must not be close because I'm pretty sure if I was, this would have put me into full labor! :) This is now a funny story since everything is OK! But, I wanted to put it on the blog so we have a story to tell Peanut.

Everyone have a great day...I will now be going to take a nap!
Love, Kari

We Made It!!

36 weeks TODAY! We did it! We are so happy Peanut decided to stay put this long! And, I feel great! Ever since being off the procardia, I feel so much better! I have more energy, lost weight (not that I care, but must have been retaining water), and have just felt better overall! Plus, I don't have to take meds every 6 hours! The side effects of the new blood pressure medicine have almost completely gone away. I did go to the doctor today again to have my bp checked - it was 120/90. Obviously, still not thrilled with the bottom number. I will have a non-stress test again Monday morning and have my bp checked again. If it's still sort of high, I will go back again next week. If not, I get to wait an entire week. :) Dr. Lo does not think I will go in the next week...thank goodness since Brad is fishing his last tournament before the baby this weekend! If for some reason I still haven't gone by July 15th (or somewhere around there), they will induce me. That would be 39 weeks. I am just amazed the word "induce" is even being mentioned! Who would have thought we would have made it this far?! :) :) So happy we have been able to keep Peanut safe and let everything finish developing this much! Everyone have a great weekend -- I'm pretty sure we'll both be all smiles! :)

Take Care!
Kari

6/21/10 Dr. Appt.

Went for a blood pressure check-up today. The first time they took it, it was 130/90. I rested for about 5 minutes (laying down) and it was then 120/80. Dr. Lo still did not like the first reading. He said it was "reasonable," but with last Thursday's reading, he wanted me to take new blood pressure medicine. And, in case you are thinking, "that doesn't seem that high," here is their explanation: "if that was your normal range, we probably wouldn't think much of it (other than bottom number really is a little high). But, we have checked your bp since day 1 and this is high for YOU." Ok! That makes sense! So, I am on a new bp medicine and they have taken me off the procardia (contraction stopping med) and the magnesium oxide. So far, the side effects of the new med have not been the greatest. I am extremely anxious and have a tingly scalp (sounds weird, but it's annoying more than anything). I am hoping these are temporary!! I will go back on Thursday (36 weeks) to check the bp again. He wants to make sure I'm on enough of the medicine.

They also started with non-stress tests today. I will have one every week until I delivery. It is just being hooked up to the contraction and baby heart rate monitors. Not a big deal and kind of reassuring. We did this in Omaha so it was really nothing new. I asked if I was having any contractions and she said I had 2 in the first 10-15 minutes. I have no idea if the tightness I am feeling is just the baby moving or a contraction. Probably a combo of both.

Dr. Lo said again today that I will probably not go anymore than 3 weeks (either I will go on my own in the next 3 weeks or they will induce me). Shocker - that would be when I thought my due date was all along! Oh well! We'll see what happens.

I think that's about it...everyone have a good night!
Kari

Baby Peanut

Oh, goodness! I have had so much time to think this weekend! If you know me, that is not always a good thing! But, I think it's actually ok this time. Everything is getting more realistic each day. Each time I walk past the nursery, I think, "Wow, we are going to have a baby in that room any day now!" It's almost too good to be true. This pregnancy hasn't been the easiest in the world. And, I have actually decided that's OK. I think it has given me a greater appreciation for this little bundle. Not that I have ever not appreciated the gift God has given us, but I have had days that made me frustrated that it hasn't been a piece of cake for us (and just thinking that frustrated me)! But, it's not always sunshine and roses. Sometimes we have to have the rain and thorns to make the perfect rose. And, that's what peanut will be - perfect! I don't mean that nothing will be "wrong," but no matter what, he/she will be our perfect little miracle! God has truly blessed Brad and I with having the ability to have a child and allowing us to make it this far! We are only 4 days from our 2nd goal (June 24th)!! Not only that, we have been so blessed with an amazing support system. Friends I don't keep up with on a daily basis have e-mailed and reached out to us. Thank you for that! I'm honestly not sure I can ever express how much that means to me/us! I'm sitting here watching golf (of all things) and they keep talking about father/child relationships. I'm so excited for Brad to have that very soon!! I think he will be such a proud Dad! I can't wait until Peanut can hold a fishing pole and stand right by Dad to catch his/her he first bass!! What a priceless moment that will be! Happy Father's Day, Brad! Zeke, Peanut, and I love you!

I will try and update tomorrow after the doctor's appointment! My bp has been great this weekend so I'm very hopeful tomorrow will go well!! Have a great night!

Love, Kari

6/17/10 Dr. Appt.

35 weeks today! We had our regular doctor's appointment today. My blood pressure was 134/96 at first. That was a little too high, according to our doctor. They had me lay down on my left side for about 5 minutes, re-took my blood pressure, and it was 120/70. So, that was better. However, Dr. Lo was still somewhat concerned about the first time it was taken. I have to go back on Monday to have it taken again. If it is still high, he will put me on blood pressure medicine, take me off the contraction medicine and magnesium oxide, and possibly put me on bed rest. I cannot tell you how hopeful I am that it is not high!!! I'm not sure bed rest and I would get along too well! I did retake my bp tonight and it was 120/76. Guess we'll see what happens Monday. He has recommended no travel and definitely down at nights and weekends. I think I have let myself get back in the habit of doing stuff at night instead of absolutely no activity. So, this weekend I will be doing absolutely nothing!! Dr. Lo's gut feeling is that I will not go into labor in the next week, but will not go more than 4 more. So...in the next 2-3 weeks, Baby Peanut may arrive! Whoa - talk about reality! I'm starting to question whether or not I can really do this / care for a person!!! It's all becoming a bit overwhelming for me. I think that's a common concern (at least I hope so)! I guess I would just appreciate any prayers right now!! That seems to help me the most!

Everyone take care -- we love you all! Kari

34 weeks - Woo Hoo!

We are about 5 hours from making it to 34 weeks! Yay! This was goal #1 for us! We're excited that Peanut stayed put until now! I'm optimistic we'll make it at least another 2 weeks.

On Monday night, I was having lots of tightness. It was pretty frequent for about 2 - 2 and a half hours. It finally faded, but then started back up mid-morning on Tuesday. I ended up going to the doctor just to make sure we weren't in for a surprise! They determined it probably is contractions. But, they are hoping they will not cause me to go into labor with the medicine I'm on. Basically, the medicine will hopefully keep them mild enough to prevent labor. I was still measuring the same as our appointment in Omaha so that was great news! Dr. Lo also commented that he thinks the increased fluid led him to think the baby was on the bigger side. He now thinks we'll have an average size baby. Thank goodness for that! We will go back to see him on Thursday, 6/17. Overall, I'm feeling decent. The medicine is really causing some nasty swelling in my feet and ankles. It makes me feel pretty crappy for about 2-3 hours after taking it (every 6 hours), but we're surviving!! I'll be curious to see when I can stop taking it!!

More great news - Angie & Jared (Angie has been a great friend as long as I can remember) were blessed with a precious little girl last night at 9:55 pm! Hadley Dawn Eichholz weighed 7 pounds, 1 oz and was 18.5 inches long!! I've seen 2 pictures now and she seriously is just perfect!! We're so very happy for them!! Angie had to have a c-section so we definitely hope she recovers well from that!! Once again, I just want to hop in my car and drive to see these babies, but know I can't...yet!

Mom and Dad Frerking are coming up this weekend - VERY excited to see them!! I obviously won't be tons of entertainment for them, but it will be great just to relax and visit! Wish them safe travels!!

Everyone take care!! Kari

Omaha Appt.

Brad and I left bright and early this morning for our doctor's appointment in Omaha. We arrived around 6:30 am. We had another ultrasound (not as detailed as last time). They measured my cervix and the amount of fluid around the baby. My cervix has continued to shorten. I think it went from 2.9 to 2.2 in the past 2 weeks. I thought maybe this was ok since we are getting closer to arrival time. But, Dr. Levine said it is just too early for this to be happening. Right now, our goal is to get to 34 weeks (next Thursday). They will not stop labor if it starts then. If we can make it to that, our next goal will be 36 weeks so that we can at least deliver in Carroll. I think Dr. Levine thinks we'll be ok, but just to be on the safe side, he decided to go ahead with the steroid shots. I got one today and will get the other tomorrow. Because they can actually cause contractions, I am taking the Procardia (to stop contactions) a little more frequently, if necessary. The side effects of this medicine aren't the greatest. Coupled with the steroid shot, I am not feeling the best tonight. It's been a long day with only a few hours of sleep. I am very hopeful the side effects will subside by Sunday. Dr. Levine instructed that I continue to be off my feet, especially with the heat. And, for once, I can't say I'm too upset with that order. Dr. Levine did comment that he is comfortable with the baby's size. My fluid levels are about the same as last time. So, for now, we are protecting Peanut with the steroids and hoping for 36 weeks. We will go to Dr. Lo on Thursday in Carroll.

Now...on to the REALLY exciting news!! My friend Kim and her husband Joe (such great people) were blessed with a baby boy last night at 10:32 pm!! Benjamin Joseph Wuertz was 9 lbs, 6 oz! That poor momma! Seriously, though, both Mom and Ben are doing great!! We could not be happier for them! The only thing that is driving me crazy right now is that I can't drive to Kansas to see them!! I did get a picture via text message and he is absolutely adorable!! So, Congrats to them!! We love you!!

Thanks for the continued support and prayers...
Love, Kari

5/25/10 Appt.

We had our "32 week" appointment with Dr. Lo on Tuesday, 5/25 (it was actually 31 weeks and 5 days, but who's counting). I think he was in a hurry so it wasn't the most detailed appointment, but oh well! I am just going to assume that's a good thing. He did check things out and nothing has changed since last week! So, that's great news. Hopefully, Peanut got the hint to stay put! I can't help that he/she is as impatient as me! I'm rather happy to see 32 weeks tomorrow! So, now we will wait until next Friday (6/4) to see Dr. Levine. I sincerely hope nothing happens between now and then (and for some reason, I don't think it will). Dr. Lo indicated they would stop the meds if I can get to 34 weeks...that's my goal right now. Wouldn't it just be ironic if I end up going to 40 weeks?!

Otherwise, we're doing well. I'm still kind of bummed we don't get to go home for Memorial Day weekend. This will be the first Fangmann reunion I have missed. :( But, as my aunt said, what a better reason to miss than for a baby. She's right! Thanks Aunt Brenda! So, here's a shout-out to everyone -- have a great time, eat & drink some for me, and enjoy each other!!

I sincerely hope all of you out there are doing great! Thanks for following us on this journey! We love hearing from you and can't wait for you to meet our special little bundle!!

Love, Kari

3-D & More

First of all, thank you EVERYONE for the thoughts, prayers, comments, and e-mails! Thank you, thank you! We are so blessed to have such a support system!! Things are much better than the last time I wrote...emotionally, at least. I was beyond exhausted Thursday and have been able to really relax and rest this weekend. It has been so helpful! Baby Peanut has been active enough to let me know he/she is ok! Thank goodness for that! I started the test for Dr. Lo today and will finish it early tomorrow morning before work. I will make a quick trip to the hospital before work tomorrow morning and get all of that done. That will be nice! The medicine is going better! It first gave me such horrible headaches, but I think my body has finally adjusted and they are basically gone. Oh well, I'd gladly endure those headaches everyday if it is helping Peanut! One thing I left out on Thursday's post is that we did get the 3-D ultrasound done. We weren't asked if we wanted - they just did it. I, personally, was not sold on getting this done, if asked. I didn't really want to know what Peanut "looked" like until he/she was born. BUT, it has been the best thing ever! Anytime I get frustrated or worried, I just look at this little picture and it makes it all better! What a sweet little thing! I personally think you're looking at a "Little Brad," and that is great with me! Hope you enjoy as much as we do!!

Thanks again for all of your prayers! Love ya, Kari

Trying to Keep Peanut Safe!

Hello everyone. Just wanted to give a quick update. On Wednesday, I started bleeding and cramping. I went to see Dr. Lo. He discovered that my cervix was not as "long" as it should be at 31 weeks. My blood pressure was also high (I still think that's due to anxiety). He scheduled a test for preeclampsia and sent me to see Dr. Levine (Omaha) this morning. Dr. Levine performed a very detailed ultrasound and discovered I have the following: 1) More fluid around the baby than he would like to see; 2) a "mature" placenta - more mature than he would like it; 3) contractions (cannot feel). He has put me on a strict protein diet for the fluid, complete rest at home after work and on weekends (thankfully I can still work), and a prescription to stop the contractions. I really feel that Dr. Levine has everything under control. Well, as much as he can control anyway! He is a great doctor and was able to explain everything and we're confident in his diagnosis and treatment. For now, I will do one test over the weekend, see Dr. Lo on Tuesday and also have another test done requested by Dr. Levine, and see Dr. Levine on June 4th. At this point, I'm definitely hoping to make it to 36 weeks - June 24th! We would sure appreciate all prayers during this time! I will try to update everyone a little better, but for now, I'm exhausted! Thanks for everything! Love, Kari

30 Weeks

We've made it 30 weeks (ok, I'm a few hours shy, but I'm going to count it anyway)! I remember when week 20 came and I thought, "30 will be the next milestone - wonder how long it will take for that to get here?!" Well, I think it's gone fast for everyone but me. But, we're 75% of the way there! I think Brad is ready for it to be over. I'm just not a very patient person and I'm so ready to meet little Peanut. Obviously, I do not want to meet him/her yet (let's make it past 36 weeks to be on the safe side), but I am just so anxious! And...we still don't have a boy's name! If you know me, you have to know this is about ready to drive me crazy! At this point, I'm almost hoping it's a girl so we don't have to make up a boy's name! How crazy!

Since I last wrote, the doctor has put me on prescription iron pills (325 mg). I can't say it's made me feel too much better. If anything, my nauseousness has returned. But, as long as it's helping Peanut, I'll deal with it! I had my last check-up on Monday, May 10th. Everything looked great! She didn't tell me the heartrate, but my blood pressure was normal and the baby was measuring just over 30 weeks...just like I think it should be! I have been having some weird feelings under my right rib. They are thinking it's my gallbladder. So, I have to watch what I eat - no greasy foods, cut back on fatty foods, etc. And, the worst thing for a gallbladder? Hamburger! That's honestly about the only meat I can eat at this point. I'm not totally convinced what I'm feeling is my gallbladder, but I am trying to change my habits anyway! I really don't want to have surgery before baby gets here!

As for our family, Zeke is doing well! We're still fighting his "reverse sneezing." Poor little guy just fights through each attack. But, he's back to 100% as soon as they're over. We just love him like crazy! On Saturday, May 8th, we sold the Pontiac G6 that I've driven for the past 4 years! It was actually kind of sad to see it go. We were going to wait to purchase anything else until July (after new rebates came out), but ended up going to the dealership on Saturday and purchasing a Chevy Equinox! We will be getting it on Monday, May 17th. I can't say I'm excited to have a car payment again, but it will be nice to have a warranty, dependability, and something a little bigger for Peanut's arrival!

Brad left today for his final "long" fishing trip before Peanut gets here. Just to be on the safe side, Mom is coming up tomorrow night and we'll spend the weekend together! Yay!! I'm very excited! One of my co-workers, Annie, is hosting a shower for me this weekend, also! I'm pretty sure she's done way too much already, but she just won't listen to me! :) I am excited for it and very thankful to have such great co-workers and friends!!

I think that's it for now...next appointment will be an ultrasound on 5/25!

Love, Kari

Shower, Doctor, Class - Lots of Excitement!

Wow, we have had a lot going on in the past week! I apologize for not updating our blog sooner! But, here's a quick recap of the week:

Baby Shower / Trip Home
Peanut and I made a trip to Concordia this past weekend (Fri - Sun). I was feeling so guilty for taking a day off work, but I did and it was so worth it! I made it to Concordia around 8:00 on Thursday night. Mom and Dad (Grandma & Grandpa Frerking) surprised us with the stroller/car seat combo!! How exciting! They really didn't need to do that! But, we sure are excited about it! I also got to see Grandpa Doug's drawings! Wow...I figured they would be good based on what I had heard, but I was blown away!! He definitely has some major talent!! On Friday, I got to relax in the morning and spend the afternoon with Mom -- doesn't get much better than that!! We went out to eat with the gang Friday night. On Saturday, we had a BIG day! Grandma Brenda joined us all the way from Edina for the baby shower! Judy, Glenda, Rita, & Kathy hosted a shower for us. I got to see so many amazing people and people I have greatly missed! They did such an awesome job with it and I appreciate it so much!! I get a little teary eyed just thinking about it!! It was so nice of everyone to come and see us!! And, boy did they spoil us! We got such nice things for Peanut!! Among so many things, we received the swing (from Grandma Brenda), bouncer, blankets, play mat, bathtub goodies, Cardinals onesie, pig piggy bank, and Peanut's very first fishing tackle box (from Buddy Roger, of course)! It was absolutely amazing and oh so overwhelming. We are so blessed to have such amazing people in our life! A huge thank you to everyone!! We then got to go to Aunt Angie's (that's what we call her - really, Kari's close friend) shower! It was so fun and exciting to get to see her get showered with gifts. The whole time Peanut and I were in Concordia, Brad was fishing down at Pomme & Truman (about 1.5 hours south of Concordia). They did great on the Saturday tournament. On Sunday, their luck turned sour and our boat broke down. So, Brad and I got home around the same time on Sunday! It was actually nice, but I still feel bad about the boat! (It has since been fixed for a small fee - yay!) We spent Sunday night putting everything together and away! Wow, our nursery filled up fast!! Love it!! Oh, and boy did we miss Zeke!! It was so great to see him on Sunday!! No matter how long we leave him, he still loves us when we get home! What a special little dog!!

Doctor's Appointment
On Tuesday (Brad's birthday), we had a doctor's appointment. Everything is looking good! I took the gestational diabetes test and "passed with flying colors." :) I am still anemic, even with the extra iron. But, I never heard anymore from my doctor so I guess I'll just keep taking what I am and hope it's ok. The heartrate was in the 140s. I will go back in 2 weeks - every 2 weeks until 36 weeks and then once a week. On May 6th, I have an appointment with the baby's doctor just to go over a few things before the big arrival!

Baby Class
On Wednesday night, we attended the Childbirth class. It was very informative and gave us a little dose of reality (what could actually happen - from c-section to transfer to a smooth delivery). We also got to tour The Birth Place. It's a very nice facility and the nurses seem great! I think we're on info overload, but it was helpful for us!

Today is 28 weeks ~ the official start of the last trimester! Hard to believe it's here! I'm so hoping I can make it to 36 weeks so we can deliver in Carroll. Fingers crossed! A huge thanks to everyone for all of your support in the last month!! I am constantly amazed at how lucky we truly are!! Love you all!!

Kari

Nothin' Else Matters...

It has been exactly 5 months since I discovered I was pregnant. I still remember the day like it was yesterday. Was it really positive or was I imagining that little line? Or, was I reading the test wrong? Maybe that second line wasn't bright enough. Could it be that our lives were about to change in every way possible and in ways I don't even know yet? The last 5 months have proven to be full of emotion - from extreme happiness to worrying and being scared about whether we can really do this to an overwhelming feeling of love. Today, as I reflect back on our journey so far, I can't help but hold back the tears. Little Peanut will be here in about 15 weeks! I have never loved something so much in my life. To feel the little kicks and know that a person is growing inside of me is impossible to explain or put in words. I can think of nothing more miraculous.

Today, I went from being crabby, worrying about all the little things - money, work, drama, whether or not my house is clean enough, and others opinions, to wondering why I let myself get all wrapped up in the pointless things! Truly...nothing else matters! I am so blessed to have what I have...faith, a supportive husband, family, and friends, and a life growing inside of me!! What else could seriously matter? Nothing. God has blessed us with such a special gift and I feel responsible and privileged to accept it and do the best I can! Worrying about all the little things isn't going to help and, after all, God is in control anyway!

Peanut, I cannot wait to meet you!!! You already bring us so much happiness and I can't wait for you to bring that happiness to others! I wish you a life of love and happiness! I wish you a life free of worry, but know that's not realistic. I just hope I can be the perfect Mom to you! I can't wait to watch you grow and develop into your own unique person!! I love you! Mom

Big Baby?!?!

We just had our appointment (almost 24 weeks). Everything looks great! The doctor was much happier with this appointment than last week (I would sure think so). He measured everything today - stomach, legs, kidneys, bladder, head, etc, etc. and he was very happy with it all. Yay! After all the measuring, he informed us that Baby Peanut is measuring in the 88th percentile, which equates to a 9 1/2 pound baby! Are you kidding me? Yikes! I'm just so shocked - Brad was 7 pounds and I was 3. Hmmm...this should be interesting! I expressed my concern of not wanting a c-section (phobia of surgery at St. Anthony). But, obviously, we may not have much of a choice because I really can't imagine delivering a 9 1/2 pound baby! Dr. Lo said he will be watching me very closely, but will not schedule a c-section just because it's measuring big. That's great, but I'm very apprehensive about having a c-section and being off work for 8 weeks. Obviously, I know I don't have much of a choice and that should be the least of my concerns, but if you know me, you know that's in the back of my mind! But, in all seriousness, I'm very happy everything is better than last week and the baby is looking good!

We are still struggling with a boy's name. We really don't have any possibilities. So, if you have suggestions, please feel free to comment or e-mail! "James" will be in the name. We have plenty of girl's names.

We worked more on the nursery this past weekend and are happy with how it is coming together. Now we just need to fill it with all the necessities...if only we were confident in knowing what all those are! So much to learn!

Thanks for reading and thanks for supporting us in the journey!! Love you all, Kari

Roller Coaster of Emotions

Dear all, I just wanted to give everyone a quick update on Baby Peanut. Without going into too much detail (you don't want me to...trust me), we had a "scare" yesterday and today. After a couple doctor's appointments, we think everything is under control and that Baby Peanut and I are both fine. At least, that is our hope! Pregnancy can do some crazy things to you and, with the increased emotions, it can be a roller coaster ride. Through everything, they also determined I am deficient on iron (anemic) so I have been put on some extra iron. So, I now take 5 pills a day! Hopefully that will go back down in the next week or two. But, if you could keep us in your prayers, I would sure appreciate it! I go back to the doctor on Tuesday and will have another ultrasound.

On a happy note, Brad surprised me with some baby stuff today!!! He found a "Northwest Bearcat" monkey (goes with our theme) and a little onesie!! I always said Peanut's first picture would be with a NW outfit on and now we have it!! :)


Baby Peanut sure is a "kicker!" That little thing just does not stop moving! Every single nurse and the doctor have commented on how active it is. I can't say I mind too much -- sure makes me feel better knowing it's a mover and shaker!

Love ya,
Kari

From Peanut

Hi friends and family, it's me - Peanut! Not much is going on with me these days, and Mom says that is ok with her! I am kicking her a lot! I even wake her up at night! Sorry, Mom, but I have too much growing to do to just be sitting around in here all the time! I think she likes it when I kick anyway! Dad still hasn't gotten to feel it. I am kind of stubborn like that - only kick when Dad isn't around or when everyone else is sleeping! Mom always said I'll be stubborn -- she's right!

Dad is gone this weekend to a fishing tournament! Mom was really sad at first, but she's ok now. Mom, Zeke, and I are just hanging out trying to officially get over Mom's cold. I think she's feeling better, but still coughing and achy. But, I keep trying to tell her that is better than not breathing! :) My brother Zeke is also kind of sick. He has been keeping Mom up at night. He has a breathing problem - sounds like he has a cold just like Mom. I hope he gets better soon because I can't wait to meet him!

Mom and I are going to Wal-Mart today to register for some stuff for me! See - our life is pretty boring right now! I get excited to go to Wal-Mart! She said she might even buy me some stuff! I think she loves me. Well, she tells me she does all the time! Lady - I got it! ;)

I hope all of my family and friends are doing good!! Thanks for reading about me! Love you,
Baby Peanut

Dr. Appt 3/2/10

We had our 20 week doctor appointment today (actually 19 weeks and 5 days, but who's counting besides me??). Anyway, it went well! We did not have an ultrasound. Brad and I were beginning to think we would have one every appointment, but we didn't today and won't the next time. The next one will be at 28 weeks. I'm fine with that since we had the one with Dr. Levine and they measured everything in great detail. The heartbeat today was 152. I am still measuring big. The report from the Dr. Levine visit said I'm measuring in the 72 percentile. If I continue that until 40 weeks, I will have a 8.5+ pound baby!! In case you forgot, I'm 5'2"! I will probably look like a hippo by June/July! I really hope I have some really understanding friends up here and they don't make too much fun of me! Holy toledo - I will be so huge. But, I'm fine with huge and healthy!! Someone may need to remind me of that a few months from now! Otherwise, the baby is lookin' good! I have been battling a heck of a cold since last Monday. And, I'm definitely used to taking some good meds when sick, but not now! I have been trying to sleep it away. It seems to be getting some better -- just hope that continues. Thank goodness for an understanding husband!!

Otherwise, we are still working away on the nursery and trying to figure out everything we need! Who knew we should just buy the entire Babies R Us store and call it good? Geesh! Peanut is already spoiled...just like its brother Zeke! Zeke has also had a cold lately -- his little nose is just a runnin'! So, him and I have been cuddling on the couch! That has been the only good thing about being sick - I get Zeke time!

Brad starts fishing next week!! Are you kidding? He'll be headed down to Table Rock Lake in Missouri next week for a tournament on Sunday. Hard to believe it's already that time of year, but he is bouncing off the walls with excitement. I'm actually excited for him, too - who wouldn't want to do something fun after this winter? And, I'm happy because he doesn't have the drama/craziness of being in the club he used to. He's just going to fish what he can this year - what a guy!! You might have to remind me of this in June/July, too!! I will go crazy if I go into labor and he isn't here!! We'll see!! But, good luck to him next week!!

Well, I better get something done!! Oh, and by the way, little Peanut is now kicking up a storm! I could actually feel the kicks on the outside of my stomach in the middle of the night!! Love it! And, love you all!! Take care! Kari

The nursery and big ole me!

In case you haven't seen it on facebook, here are a few pics of the nursery so far & me at 19 weeks...yikes!

Dr. Levine Visit

Our appointment is OVER and I am all smiles! We got a good report! Everything with baby peanut looks great. We have no greater risk of a birth defect or other issue than anyone else. Basically, he can be 80% sure our baby is ok. We could bump that up to 88% if we wanted to do genetic testing, but we are not (as I have said before). Dr. Levine thought the baby looked good. It still measured slightly bigger and ahead of our 7/22 due date, but not enough to change it. Darn! Ha ha! I have definitely started gaining weight...bummer! But, that's OK! I'm totally fine with gaining weight for a healthy baby! As for the gender, we had to look away at one point, but then I'm pretty sure I saw something (either there or not there) on another view. But, I will keep that opinion to myself!! He did say something about the thickness of the neck, but said it could be because of the way the baby was laying - nothing to be concerned about. He said he'd make note of it in his report and Dr. Lo would follow-up. I'm actually not worried about it. And, finally, the placenta previa is gone! The ultrasound tech seemed shocked when I told her I had had it throughout the entire pregnancy. So, thank you all so much for your overwhelming support! Not sure what I'd do without all of you!! Thank you, thank you, thank you!!

As for now, we are stuck in Omaha - the blowing snow and roads are keeping us here. They have parts of I-80 and I-29 closed. I'm really hoping we can leave today, but if we can't, we can't. I certainly don't want to be in an accident after getting good news!

Again, thank you! Have a great day - I know I will!! Love ya, Kari

In Omaha

We are in Omaha! We arrived yesterday around 11 am. We had a great day of shopping at Bass Pro and Target. I must admit that Brad was extremely efficient in Bass Pro. He had his typed list with item, color, price, and quantity needed all ready to go. I was impressed! We found Peanut its first bass -- a cute little stuffed large-mouth bass. It is even the green color we love. :) Happy Valentine's Day, Peanut! The best part of Bass Pro was that we left with tons of merchandise without paying a dime! Thank you, gift cards!! Woo hoo! Brad thinks he has almost everything he needs for this fishing season now! Target was good, as well. We actually found the car seat, pack and play, swing, and stroller that we want. It was a good learning experience for us! Babies R Us should be interesting!

After shopping, we went out to eat at Applebee's...yum! We then tried to find Gordman's. We found the distribution center! Ha...why would they put that in the GPS? Then, we found one that had gone out of business! By then, Brad made the decision that we were going to the hotel and nowhere else. :) No biggie! We have all day today!

Today, we are hoping to meet up with some friends that are in town for a gun show. Then, we're off to Babies R Us and Gordman's. I am so happy we decided to come yesterday. Carroll County is in a winter weather advisory for blowing snow (shocker) today until tomorrow morning. Plus, it has been nice spending time away from the drifts of snow! Omaha doesn't have near the amount of snow we do. And, who doesn't like to get away for a weekend?!

Tomorrow, we will check in at 7:30, meet with the genetic counselor at 8 and the doctor at 10:30. We are hoping for an informative and positive experience!! I will update the blog as soon as possible after the appointment.

Love ya,
Kari

Omaha Trip Delayed

Due to the blowing snow here in the great state of Iowa (please note sarcasm), we are not going to Omaha tomorrow for our dr. appt. We will now go on Monday, February15th. I am so frustrated with our weather, but there's nothing I can do about it. I just really want this appointment over with!! So, I guess this just give us all more time to say more prayers for a good appointment.

I did speak to a Genetic Counselor this morning (she called thinking we were still coming tomorrow). She wanted just our brief family history. After we went over it, I asked if she saw a reason to be concerned. She didn't see anything that would greatly increase our risk. So, it was at least nice to hear that. God works in amazing ways...he must have known I needed to hear that today. Obviously, she couldn't be sure since it was literally a 5 minute conversation, but a little reassurance is always nice.

Until next Monday...thanks for everything! We have received such nice comments and e-mails recently and they have helped me tremendously!!

Love you,
Kari

"Medium-Large or Large-Large"

Oh, relief! Well, at least a little for now! We just had our appointment with our regular doctor this afternoon. Baby Peanut looks great!! But, "it" doesn't really look like a peanut anymore! Our baby is growing so fast. What a cliche, huh? I have a feeling we'll be saying that for at least the next 18 years. :) Today, I am technically 15 weeks & 5 days. According to the measurements, we are 17 weeks and 2 days (body) or 16 weeks & 4 days (head circumference). In the words of our doctor, we are going to have a "medium-large or large-large baby instead of a medium-small, small-small baby." Yes, that's a quote...Brad and I both had a good laugh over that! I have to admit, I am a little shocked that I'm going to possibly have a larger baby considering I was a mere 3 pounds, 15 oz! OR...could it be that I have been right all along and my due date is actually earlier!?!? I still think I'm right on that one!! The heartbeat was 155 today and everything else seemed to look good. I still have placenta previa, but he thinks it should be gone by our next appointment. It is getting better. Let's hope so! The doctor was also happy that my weight has remained steady and that I haven't really gained any weight (within 1-2 lbs). I sure feel like and probably look it in the pictures, but I like to call it a "redistribution of weight!"

Now, if you know me at all, you know I stand up for what I believe in and you never have to wonder what I'm thinking! Well, I felt the need to express my concern about our previous appointment today so I did. The nurse was able to explain things much better than the doctor ever did. We are still going to go to Omaha next Tuesday. So, please keep the prayers coming!! We will first see a genetic counselor who will assess our risk of having a child (this one or future) with birth defects based on family history. We will then see a perinatologist. This will be our doctor should I have pregnancy complications of any kind or go early and cannot deliver in Carroll. So, he is not just a genetic doctor. If only they would have explained all of this at our last appointment. Anyway, our nurse said it should be a pretty informative appointment so we have decided to go forward with it. However, we did decline the blood test for downs syndrome today. We are going to love this child no matter what and feel that if there is a true concern, we will likely find that out next week. Further, we do not want to do an amniocentesis so we did not see the point in doing the blood test, especially with the chance of false positives. This is simply a decision that Brad and I have made together and were thankful that we were at least given a chance to make that decision for ourselves today. This obviously does not eliminate our concern of not having a healthy baby. Of course, we want the best for it! I'm hopeful that our appointment next week will go well and be beneficial for all of us. Again, prayers are great!

Until next time, we love you all and thank you for all your support!!
Kari

P.S. Here are a couple pics of my baby bump! :) Yes, I know my face looks scary in the second one...yikes!

Whew...

Hello everyone!

Well, we are 15 weeks & 1 day now! Yay! For some reason, I'm very excited to get to 16 weeks. We go to the doctor late Tuesday, 2/2, for a regular appointment. I'm definitely hoping this appointment goes much better than the last. Honestly, if we could go, see the baby, and hear the heartbeat, I'd be very happy. That's all I want. We then go to Omaha on Tuesday, 2/9, for the appointment with a perinatologist. I'm starting to get anxious all over again about that appointment, but am trying to remain calm for the baby.

I have been feeling quite a bit better...not as much nausea and a little more energy. I am still having back pain. In fact, this week, I had a rib out of place. Now, I'm not big on chiropractors. But, I was in so much pain that I had to go. It hit me Wednesday morning and again this morning. I think he has everything back in place, but will go tomorrow to check it out. This week, I have realized the importance of Arbonne. What a great feeling to know everything I am putting on my skin is all natural. I don't have to worry about the chemicals and acids in other products. And, they have really helped me control the back soreness. And, finally, I think I'm starting to show. I have this puffy stomach that came from nowhere! :) Yikes! I have a feeling I will be in maternity clothes within the next week or two.

And, the best news of the week is that I think we have a daycare provider!! I'm so excited. She is absolutely wonderful. We got a daily agenda and the structure is unbelievable!! She is a licensed teacher who really combines learning and fun throughout the day. I would feel more comfortable waiting until after these next 2 appointments to sign the contract, so I'm excited for the next 2 weeks to be over!! I feel so blessed to have her take care of our precious little one.

Please continue to say prayers for us!! Love you all!
Kari

The Painting Has Begun! & Comments

Wow, I have a great husband! He has been absolutely awesome since I've been pregnant. He does the dishes (so I don't gag), cleans, and has been organizing the whole house. I get so frustrated because I seriously don't have the energy to help as much as I want to, especially if it's after work. But, he says he doesn't mind. Thank You! Well, today, he has painted the "new" spare bedroom. It used to be the "exercise" room, but since the "old" spare bedroom is going to be the nursery, we are rearranging everything. I love the color - a dark beige called "Mexican Sand." I think it will all work out great! I just hope we have room for everything. We have the color picked out for the nursery, but not sure when we'll tackle that project. It's also a beige - just a little lighter than the spare bedroom. It's all so surreal! But, I do think my pants are getting tighter. :) Right now, I'm really hoping my energy will come back soon and maybe the nausea will get better. I'm still having lots of back pain, but it hasn't been too bad today since I have been resting a LOT. I'm excited for Thursday -- 14 weeks!

COMMENTS - I have had several of you say you're having issues with leaving comments. First of all, Thank You for reading and wanting to leave comments. That's so nice and makes us feel good! Second of all, I have also tried leaving a comment has a test and can't get it to work. So, I have changed a few settings that really shouldn't matter, but hopefully will work. Thanks Again!

Love ya,
Kari

Let go & let God

Wow, how things can change overnight. I was obviously worked-up after yesterday's doctor appointment. But, I woke up around 3:00 this morning (as I do most mornings since my bladder can't make it more than 2 hours these days). And, all I could think about was my Aunt Kathy's favorite saying (or at least one of them): "Let go and let God!" You see, she and I have a lot in common - we worry! Sometimes we worry about the big things, but sometimes we worry about really little things! I hope she doesn't mind that I'm saying this! But, she knows what I mean when I say it is very hard for me to control! It's not that I'm not working on it, but it's a long, slow process!! So, anyway, some time ago, she put the phrase "Let go and let God" as her favorite quote in one of those e-mail surveys. I thought that was such a neat phrase, but hadn't thought too much more about it since then. But, that is all I could think about at 3:00 am! So, I decided right then that I am going to enjoy this pregnancy and let God handle the rest!! He is in control anyway!! I'm sure I will still have my little freak-out moments, but I hope this will help me stop some of the worrying!! Oh, the power of prayer!!

Love you all!
Kari

12 weeks & 5 days

Today, we had another appointment. It really wasn't supposed to be until Thursday, but I was having bad back pain and lots of cramping. I called Monday to see if I should be concerned and they said to come in today. So, we did. Overall, it was a good appointment with a little bit of surprise. Baby "Peanut" doesn't really look like a peanut anymore! We got to see the arms and legs and even a quick view of the fingers. We could also see the profile of the face -- it has a cute nose! :) Peanut was moving around quite a bit, but we did get to hear the heartbeat. They said it was strong and healthy at 152. Earlier, the nurse had found it with the Doppler machine in the 160s. The back pain and cramping is caused from the baby growing. The nurse suggested that Brad massage my back. Without thinking, I started laughing out loud! That won't happen! I was very happy to hear I haven't gained a single pound!! :) The nurse, of course, quickly said, "OH! You will!" Thanks, I know, but I'm pretty happy about that so far! I still have partial placenta previa. The doctor could not tell if it was improving or not, which kind of frustrated me! And then...the doctor decided he's sending us to Omaha to see a perinatologist. If you know me at all, I freaked out! Considering our family histories, he wants us to talk to a genetic counselor to determine our risk of birth defects / genetic issues. I personally think this is something we would have done before getting pregnant, but he's sending us anyway. I was completely shocked to hear this. At our very first appointment, we asked questions concerning our family history and he acted like it was not a concern. Now, today, he acted like it was a concern (even though he had our family history all mixed up)! Needless to say, I'm slightly frustrated with our doctor. I just don't feel like he explained himself very well! Additionally, if I go into labor as early as my Mom did with me (6 weeks early), I cannot deliver in Carroll. They will probably transport me to Omaha. So, I think that's part of it, but then again, I don't. It's all so confusing to me!!! He also thinks this will help stop my worrying. I just wanted to say, "If you think I'm worrying now, you haven't seen nothin' yet!!" But, I didn't. I did, however, tell him I think he has my due date wrong. I don't think he appreciated that very much! Oops! Anyway, long story short, it was a bittersweet appointment. I just continue to pray that God will help everything be OK. So, we would definitely appreciate your prayers, too!!

Love ya!
Kari